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DEAR MISS MANNERS: I’ve been close friends with someone for over 18 years. He and his wife even had their children refer to me as “uncle.”
Several years ago, they moved to a large city far away. We stayed in touch as best we could. They would stop by when visiting his parents, who still lived in our town.
I retired three years ago and moved back to the town I grew up in. I tried to stay in touch with my friend, but he’s grown increasingly distant.
I recently texted him and told him that my last brother had passed, and it was a sad time for me. His response was, “That’s really tough, bro.” He showed almost no empathy.
I’ve not heard from him or his wife since that day, which was many months ago.
Would it be rude to ask if I’ve done or said something that deeply offended them to the point that they decided to end our friendship?
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GENTLE READER: Not at all. Etiquette thrives in subtly criticizing someone else’s behavior by graciously blaming it on oneself.
Of course, if your friend responds that nothing is wrong, you may be forced to call him out on his callousness. But even that can be done tactfully: “Oh. I was just hoping to catch up and perhaps talk more about my brother. And of course, I want to hear about you.”
The second statement may determine, Miss Manners is afraid, whether or not its previous absence was the cause of the distance between you.
DEAR MISS MANNERS: My husband works from home. One of his colleagues who works in the office sometimes texts him that there is a product or mail for him there, and kindly offers to drop it by our home. My husband accepts and is very appreciative.
The drop-off generally occurs on a weekend, early in the day, when I am either in bed or lounging about the house in robe and slippers.
Because we moved during the pandemic, our house is “new” to Colleague, so this morning my husband elected to give him a tour. The tour did not include the bedroom where I sat in pajamas responding to email.
Source:: East Bay Times
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